Comments on: Understanding Very, Very Smart People https://www.davidsongifted.org/gifted-blog/understanding-very-very-smart-people/ Mon, 10 Mar 2025 01:39:00 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.2 By: HELL NO https://www.davidsongifted.org/gifted-blog/understanding-very-very-smart-people/#comment-50536 Mon, 10 Mar 2025 01:39:00 +0000 http://www.davidsongifted.org/?p=2527#comment-50536 In reply to No.

I agree, true geniuses like Steve Jobs and Elon Musk (at least in America) will usually come out on top in the end, no worries. But those are men with IQs above 160.

This article is actually targetting people with IQs between 120 and 140, mostly urban (and suburban) upper class white kids in North America.

To be honest, the real gifted people have no difficulty observing algorithms and noticing patterns, including social behaviors and interactions with other people.

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By: Mark G. Stevens https://www.davidsongifted.org/gifted-blog/understanding-very-very-smart-people/#comment-50255 Mon, 03 Mar 2025 16:42:47 +0000 http://www.davidsongifted.org/?p=2527#comment-50255 Intellect should be a tool and not a shiny suit. The surgeon wants the sharpest scapel, the dealmaker the sharpest pencil and we can all agree. Yet when the sharpest mind appears on the scene, many or most are not so quick to appreciate it. Ask me how I know.

Regardless, if your sharp mind is your tool, keep it sheathed in a quiet kindness amongst others, and work alone, for your gifts will not be appreciated.

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By: Daniel https://www.davidsongifted.org/gifted-blog/understanding-very-very-smart-people/#comment-49789 Sat, 22 Feb 2025 15:33:39 +0000 http://www.davidsongifted.org/?p=2527#comment-49789 In reply to No.

What they have written in this article resonated quite well with me and what you have written demonstrates that you indeed are not in any category that I would consider gifted. Just another pompous fool who has a knack for remembering various useless words.

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By: Chris https://www.davidsongifted.org/gifted-blog/understanding-very-very-smart-people/#comment-49395 Sun, 16 Feb 2025 08:35:14 +0000 http://www.davidsongifted.org/?p=2527#comment-49395 In reply to MDENT.

Amara you seem more concerned with what’s okay or not than with the actual perils of being different. You are in no position to say what is “okay” about anyone or anything, and neither is any of those who do. This person is expressing his feelings about many valid things as they relate to his person and you shame him (yes it’s cynical and exaggerated but it’s genuine unlike your stifling contribution). I’m sorry this is what you’ve learned at such a young age and I hope you will become free in time to truly feel the pain of being different and then being able to orient your life accordingly. Conformism is what the masses force on you, don’t be like them. I wish you freedom, and if you are as smart as you say you are I also wish you wisdom in how to live with it.

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By: D B https://www.davidsongifted.org/gifted-blog/understanding-very-very-smart-people/#comment-49265 Fri, 14 Feb 2025 06:38:40 +0000 http://www.davidsongifted.org/?p=2527#comment-49265 Great insights.
IQ isn’t everything and it is nothing to be jealous about. It causes an imbalance that takes decades to bring into aliment. There are a lot of average IQ people who are much smarter in other tangible ways, more fulfilled, richer, have greater purpose or accomplishment; people who have high EQ, or high industriousness or ambition.
Thank You for touching on “feeling” most people think IQ+ outliers lack empathy, it’s very much the opposite. They feel everything so much more it becomes unbearable, and the only way to survive is to shut it off temporarily. Empathy and compassion are still there, it’s just shoved in a closet long enough to get through the day, the next hour or the next 5 minutes. But it always comes back, often followed by decades of drug or alcohol.
Although, it is cool to look at a set of 2D drawings and visualize construction of the object in 3D with your eyes open, you can see it so clearly it’s like watching a movie, or being in a hologram. Faces and voices right in front of you fade away. So lay off kids that “space out” or “day dream.”

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By: Claire https://www.davidsongifted.org/gifted-blog/understanding-very-very-smart-people/#comment-46852 Wed, 08 Jan 2025 07:21:19 +0000 http://www.davidsongifted.org/?p=2527#comment-46852 In reply to Pete.

Pete, I relate so much to your comments / experience.

I came to this article after a failed attempt to write for work (I work for a small enviro magazine) about something deeply meaningful to me but a bit subtle and complex; I sabotaged the whole thing with extreme procrastination, had my perspective grossly misunderstood (critiquing society’s current dominant mode of knee-jerk oppositionality means I’m a nazi apologist, apparently), and because I left it so late I had to hand over the first rough draft which was way too abstruse and over-thought and absolutely not ready to be looked at by anyone else.

As a working-class person who reads and learns voraciously and thinks abstractly and conceptually, and who also abandoned any idea of post-secondary education after realizing I will never have patience to get through first-year level courses, I never really properly developed the ability to organize my thoughts well enough so that I can communicate them to others in writing. When I get a response like the one I got today, in which my mentor EXPEMPLIFIED the pigeonholing/oppositional stupidity that I was trying in a gentle way to critique at the society-wide level, here’s what I think to myself: “Writing is hard. Still, I would like to try. But what is the point of trying, with great difficulty, to overcome my habits of self-sabotaging / procrastination and developing the skills to try to communicate my ideas to others, when their minds contain certain resistant elements that likely will prevent them from taking any meaning from it, even if I manage to express it well?”

I’m realizing how isolated I have always felt and the deep, lifelong pain I have about being trapped in my own world and unable to express what’s in my own mind, and bring it into the world outside. It is incredibly isolating. I’m in my early 40s and it’s only in the last few years that I’ve started to understand, objectively, the lack of intelligence most people have. I always look for the best in people and I deeply believe that people have value far beyond their IQ. That, plus the human tendency to project one’s own self onto others, has prevented me, until now, from seeing the rather stark and depressing situation as it is.

Playing the dominance and subordination game – yup. The whole dynamic of engaging with people and systems that have more power but less intelligence than you just makes you pull back, disinvest yourself, and basically disengage, which is really tragic and crushes the possibility of making a real contribution.

It’s been really good to read the comments here, a balm to make me feel not so alone. I’m grateful for the practical advice I gleaned from your comment, to observe others carefully before trying to express myself. Take care out there.

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By: No https://www.davidsongifted.org/gifted-blog/understanding-very-very-smart-people/#comment-46592 Fri, 03 Jan 2025 13:55:34 +0000 http://www.davidsongifted.org/?p=2527#comment-46592 You do not understand intelligent people at all. Reading this was maddening, these are not grand wisdoms unavailable to people who think a little too deeply. They’re patronizing or contradictory statements, or simply actions that load additional onus and responsibility onto the person who is an “outlier.” Learn how to be less weird! But don’t do things their way! You just aren’t trying! Just open up to people! They won’t be scared off at all by the hairy things you’re grappling with! This is all nonsense and frankly you should not be allowed to offer opinions freely on the internet.

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By: janji gacor daftar https://www.davidsongifted.org/gifted-blog/understanding-very-very-smart-people/#comment-46463 Tue, 31 Dec 2024 12:30:33 +0000 http://www.davidsongifted.org/?p=2527#comment-46463 Chances are you’ll even uncover a solution admirer for there are actually changes inside your like daily life and really like of everyday living – you have certainly not dreamed of, all without excessive effort in your portion!

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By: Arish Mathes https://www.davidsongifted.org/gifted-blog/understanding-very-very-smart-people/#comment-46361 Sun, 29 Dec 2024 19:57:57 +0000 http://www.davidsongifted.org/?p=2527#comment-46361 Why do you think you are “smart” or superior to others?

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By: Yanaar Jane Lee https://www.davidsongifted.org/gifted-blog/understanding-very-very-smart-people/#comment-43830 Mon, 25 Nov 2024 17:21:45 +0000 http://www.davidsongifted.org/?p=2527#comment-43830 In reply to SJ Goebel.

I tested 179 on the Standford Binet, and this article fits me to a t. Thank you for publishing it. What a relief to know this about myself, and feel validated. Maybe I can handle myself better with others. I’m always amazed that others don’t seem to see what I think is obvious. I have to stop that, and react differently.

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By: Oso BrownBear https://www.davidsongifted.org/gifted-blog/understanding-very-very-smart-people/#comment-43561 Fri, 22 Nov 2024 03:13:33 +0000 http://www.davidsongifted.org/?p=2527#comment-43561 In reply to Tulio Takemae.

Possibly watch Goodwill Hunting?

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By: Oso BrownBear https://www.davidsongifted.org/gifted-blog/understanding-very-very-smart-people/#comment-43560 Fri, 22 Nov 2024 03:11:35 +0000 http://www.davidsongifted.org/?p=2527#comment-43560 In reply to CGB.

All I know is that with even this as the only conversation in the room, I’m still never, ever, ever bored. Thank the speed of light I can close my eyes and ears and entertain myself for forever and a day.

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