Comments on: The intellectual and psychosocial nature of extreme giftedness https://www.davidsongifted.org/gifted-blog/the-intellectual-and-psychosocial-nature-of-extreme-giftedness/ Tue, 01 Oct 2024 15:03:12 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.2 By: Joshua Windham https://www.davidsongifted.org/gifted-blog/the-intellectual-and-psychosocial-nature-of-extreme-giftedness/#comment-40056 Tue, 01 Oct 2024 15:03:12 +0000 http://www.davidsongifted.org/?p=3029#comment-40056 I am an adult ASD person. I am worth it! I am better than a job! Screw the system I can win!

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By: Gek Lee Stevens https://www.davidsongifted.org/gifted-blog/the-intellectual-and-psychosocial-nature-of-extreme-giftedness/#comment-20474 Wed, 15 Nov 2023 19:54:39 +0000 http://www.davidsongifted.org/?p=3029#comment-20474 This was a hopeful article to read by elderly parents of a child with an IQ of 142 (8 yrs old) and now a 46 year old adult man. We were in the camp of those parents whose first brush with the high IQ (education community-Country Day) was extremely negative. We decided to keep him “normal” and hence, missed out on all the right ways to nurture his “gifts”. Now were in a relational crisis with our adult son and looking for a knowledgeable and experienced professional to help us navigate our emotional journey to help him find a more satisfying way forward and to help us not castigate ourselves for “missing the boat” on this important part of parenting that we didn’t succeed in. I brought cultural baggage to my role as mother from my own working class roots in Asia.

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By: Verity J https://www.davidsongifted.org/gifted-blog/the-intellectual-and-psychosocial-nature-of-extreme-giftedness/#comment-17583 Wed, 06 Sep 2023 09:57:37 +0000 http://www.davidsongifted.org/?p=3029#comment-17583 My father told my brother, but never me, that I was highly gifted. Reading this article was very illuminating for me as I reflect on my own upbringing, bereft of social emotional wellness.

As a Teaching Artist today, my motivation in facilitation is to aid youth development, to give an opportunity to develop new skills to take away for new avenues of their continued self-exploration through doing, in other words experiential learning. Social Emotional Learning is also an important element of my practice as it’s clearly evident that youth of differing abilities have self-esteem issues and social skills, not necessarily correlated with obvious intellectual advancement. I can’t parent, but I can give them a place to safely explore new things to do, to perhaps reframe ideas about self, and new ways they can continue to nurture themselves on their own.

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By: D. W. https://www.davidsongifted.org/gifted-blog/the-intellectual-and-psychosocial-nature-of-extreme-giftedness/#comment-9482 Sun, 31 Jul 2022 09:37:17 +0000 http://www.davidsongifted.org/?p=3029#comment-9482 Yes! Absolutely yes! I think so many gifted adults diagnosed at a later age can relate to this. I know I wasn’t given my test results until this year and I’m 30. It’s hard to understand that I knew college level information in third grade and never communicated this. I am also a person of color in the south so teachers discounted my intelligence all the time. Being gifted isn’t easy.

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By: Mary Lou brandes https://www.davidsongifted.org/gifted-blog/the-intellectual-and-psychosocial-nature-of-extreme-giftedness/#comment-6313 Thu, 28 Apr 2022 19:03:06 +0000 http://www.davidsongifted.org/?p=3029#comment-6313 I need to interact.

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By: Aliyu ali hussaini https://www.davidsongifted.org/gifted-blog/the-intellectual-and-psychosocial-nature-of-extreme-giftedness/#comment-4297 Wed, 16 Feb 2022 11:52:51 +0000 http://www.davidsongifted.org/?p=3029#comment-4297 Thanks for sharing this knowledge to us

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By: Robert Evans https://www.davidsongifted.org/gifted-blog/the-intellectual-and-psychosocial-nature-of-extreme-giftedness/#comment-853 Sun, 18 Jul 2021 23:26:25 +0000 http://www.davidsongifted.org/?p=3029#comment-853 “As parents, we need to teach them that there is always something to learn from somebody.”

At a prior job I was using a restroom I usually don’t use and was stuck by the dispenser not dispensing paper towels. A guy showed me the trick to get it to dispense and I thanked him. From what I could tell he was with the group of people who are mentally handicapped (there was a program with my workplace and their facility that got them jobs there). So this is a possible 4+ SD gap between me and the person who taught me how to use a device.

I’ve been in a lot of jobs in my early years and frequently learned from people of average or below average IQ. Crystallized intelligence, familiarity, whatever you want to call it, is important.

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